Savage Love

By Dan Savage
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Should I not have sex with my best friend’s babydaddy even though he was my boyfriend before he was hers?

Yes, you should not.

Why can some girls only orgasm on top?

Because the angle of penetration provides them with the direct clitoral stimulation they need to get off .

Do you have any advice for non-openly-gay people at a school where gays are almost nonexistent?

Recognize that you’re part of the problem. The non-openly-gay people at your school—you and the other closeted gays—create a negative nonexistence feedback loop. You don’t come out because no one’s out, and no one comes out because you’re not out. My advice: If you’re in a position to come out, come out. If you’re not in a position to come out, make plans to get to a place where you can come out. And in the meantime, refrain from whining about a problem that your choices and/or limitations contribute to creating.

Can you come out your butt?

Um, sure, but only if someone else came in it first—and no one should be coming in your butt without a condom on his dick.

How do you tell someone that they are bad at sex?

You don’t. You tell someone that there are particular ways you like to be touched/kissed/fucked/bound/whatever and you encourage someone to touch/kiss/fuck/whip/bind you in those particular ways. Hopefully, this will lead to someone getting better at sex over a few months. If someone doesn’t get better at sex in that time frame, well, then someone either is incapable of getting better at sex or doesn’t care that you’re unhappy with the sex, and it’s time to dump someone.

Can you get a yeast infection from licking a yeast infection?

Another stumper, another guest expert: “Wet folds are a great place for yeast to grow,” says Dr. Anna Kaminski, associate medical director for Planned Parenthood of the Great Northwest, “especially if other things are a little out of balance. For example, a woman might be more prone to yeast infections due to other things in the vagina—spermicide, blood, antibiotic-induced changes in vaginal pH balance, or hormonal changes. But mouths are really good at keeping yeast in check. So it would be unusual for a person to get a yeast infection orally—unless you suffer from something that predisposes you to oral yeast infections, e.g., you are on antibiotics, you are immunocompromised, you have bad oral hygiene.”

If a guy asks a girl if she wants to have anal sex, is he curious about gay sex?

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1. JenW said... on Oct 9, 2012 at 12:05PM

“When girls can only orgasm on top it's probably because they need g-spot stimulation, which is best accomplished on top when they can control the angle and depth of penetration. It's my understanding that clitoral stimulation can be had in other positions, though I personally I never get clitoral stimulation from any kind of p-in-v intercourse.

"Because they're gay?" COME ON. There are a lot of reasons straight guys like doggie style which have nothing to do with sexual orientation.”


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