Domination Fantasies

By Dan Savage
Add Comment Add Comment | Comments: 3 | Posted Jan. 12, 2010

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Sorry, MAD, and everyone else who wrote in: I stand behind my advice to STH. His wife was apologetic and recognized that her behavior would have to change because it was, at the very least, deeply upsetting to her husband. She also confessed to kissing another dude, a gay dude, two years before they married, and he was having trouble forgiving her. If the roles were reversed—husband kissed lesbian two years before the wedding and wife couldn’t forgive and move on—you can bet your clenched butts that I would’ve called the wife a douchebag.

For crying out loud, MAD, I’ve told wives—and husbands—to forgive and forget infidelities. Did you really expect me to tell STH to leave his wife over a kiss? 

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1. starlight_fantasy said... on Aug 2, 2012 at 09:52PM

“I am a 23 yr old female, who is currently in a relationship (8yrs) but is going through some rough times. I have recently been intrigued in being in a dominant relationship. I want a man who knows exactly what he is doing and knows exactly what he wants me to do. Im not all for the being hung from the ceiling, but i would love being told what to do and when to do it. I want the type of man who will cherish me and take care of me. I want his words and voice alone to make me weak all over. Im not too sure if the man i am with is willing to do these things. He is very conservative and is not as sexually desired as i am. Does a man like the one i described even exist? or am i totally crazy?”

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2. Women In Need said... on Apr 6, 2013 at 12:03PM

“Recently I have been reading stories about being dominated and it has really turned me on. I don't know how much of a submissive I am but I would l to find out. The thing is my husband has a erectile dysfunction problem, we haven't had sex in three years.....I am ready to bust and I don't know what to do. I am tired of my vibrator although it helps sometimes, but I want to be fucked by a man. We have only been married 7 years, what can I do with these burning desires and no hope for release. Do I go outside my marriage?

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3. john said... on Sep 20, 2013 at 12:23PM

“would love to find a woman with high heel power....I'm 56”


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