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Regarding Jennifer Merrill's recent cover story about getting pregnant at 18:

Thank you for printing this amazing and heartfelt article. This article will help people who have been in this situation, children who were adopted and anyone who thinks they can judge the decisions made by woman in this situation. I have no doubt Jennifer Merrill will be a successful journalist and will make the right decision for her and her baby.

ELAINE PRICE
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Plenty of teenagers in this city get pregnant every day. Some of them will be forced to abort the baby for lack of money or support. Why are we treating this one case as news? Because she's white? Because she's pretty enough to put on the cover? Because she was narcissistic enough to think that her story is compelling and decided to write about it?

A pregnant teenager is not news. This is a sanitized version of an everyday event and a pity party thrown by a member of a demographic that PW desperately wants reading their paper masquerading as something newsworthy.

If this is really what we have to accept as content these days, you could at least do us the favor of having an editor look at the story or make it an "as told to" deal and let someone who can actually string words together to make a sentence relate the melodrama to us. This article is cliche-ridden, overwrought and trying far too hard to be "writerly." The cover of a product that's going to be consumed by an audience is not the place to hold amateur hour. We readers deserve much better than this.

DAN COPEN
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Jennifer Merrill is a brave young lady. As a young woman myself, the thoughts of pregnancy are more than a little overwhelming. I'm sure it was hard for her to get a positive perspective, but she has proven that unexpectancies in life can be shockingly happy discoveries in the end. Merrill may be young but her mental strength is inspiring. To think that she is making such a weighty decision during this time of her life may be unfortunate in many ways considering the finance, time and attention needed for a child in addition to our already hectic and stressful lives as students, but from this story I have faith she will be able to make the right decisions for herself and baby.

BRITTANA BENSON
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Not to sound heartless, but this is nothing compared to what some people go through. How about the teenagers who get pregnant and their parents abandon them? I don't see why this is newsworthy and I am offended that this story is being glorified while so many are out there with zero support and no one cares to tell their story.

SAMANTHA KROTZER
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This story is beautifully written and one that touches the heart whether you have ever been in a similar situation or not. I think it's great that PW is looking to the next generation to contribute. I mean, do we really need another story about the economy or housing crisis? Merrill may not have the writing ability that someone who's been in the business for 20 years does, but I think her article is amazing and heartfelt.

HEATHER M. RUSTICI
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Not to disparage the young author and mother (I wish her the best of luck in the choices she decides are best for her and her child), but this is not a realistic view of the lives of most teen parents. Because she's white, pretty and middle class, it's newsworthy?

I'm also a little turned off by the seemingly anti-choice vibe this article gave me. Certainly it wouldn't make for a newsworthy story if she had chosen to terminate her pregnancy. Society puts so much shame and secrecy around abortion; it's really unfair. I respect the choice she made, but the fact is she had a choice. We never focus or write articles about the similarly brave women who choose not to carry to term for their own reasons. The section about abortion seemed to demonize the act, not discuss it as a viable choice for many people.

MEGAN KOVACS
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Jennifer Merrill has written an important and engaging article. She and her family are dealing with her unplanned pregnancy with courage and thoughtful pursuit of facts, in order to make the best decision possible for the child involved. To complicate this decision, as she has so eloquently expressed in her article, her choice cannot be made by rational thinking alone; this is a decision that will be influenced by the heart.

This story raises awareness about the important issues of unplanned pregnancy, abortion, adoption and responsible decision-making. The writer's story is enhanced by the authenticity of her young age, voice and demographic.

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1. Anonymous said... on Feb 26, 2009 at 01:45PM

“After reading the article about Jennifer Merrill's unplanned teen pregnancy, I was struck by both the sadness of the situation, and the predictability of it. Like most pregnant teens, she grew up without a father around (she told her mother alone, and then called her father "from home" at the end of the day?). Like most pregnant teens, she considers herself "mature for my age." She had a bright future ahead of her, but has now left Temple University within a single semester. And the "wonderful" teenage boyfriend, who candidly realized and stated that, "we're not ready to be parents," is not mentioned again after a several month hiatus in the account. So: bright girl grows up without Dad in home, gets pregnant as a teen, thinks she is "mature" for her age (Why? Because she is intelligent enough to have done well in High School?), and leaves school. I strongly doubt she'll ever finish college; I guarantee her career prospects are permanently dimmed. I am completely confident that she will NOT give her baby up for adoption to stable parents, and that her boyfriend will NOT marry her. I severely doubt she'll even be in contact with him five years from now. And I confidently predict that the entire cycle will repeat with her daughter, in about 17 years. ”

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