Thinking Positive

HIV activist William Brawner speaks out.

By Brian James Kirk
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"I feel like other people get strength from my story when they hear it," he says, "especially positive people. I try to be the role model I wish I had."


As more people found out, he warned his wife of the consequences.

"Which of his ex-girlfriends would have a boyfriend who was going to try to shoot him?" Carter says. "Whose dad was going to want to beat him up because he had sex with their little girl?"

In 2006 Brawner went on Philadelphia radio's 100.3 The Beat and told his story. He says the decision to do so wasn't about becoming famous or being a martyr for the cause. It was about reaching out to people like himself.

"Martyrs are owed something," he says. "I'm not owed shit."

After the show, rumors began to circulate that he'd infected partners. An anonymous MySpace page was launched telling visitors he was still having sex and not telling partners his status.

But the majority of the responses he received were supportive.

"He even had people who he did have relationships with in the past who contacted him and said, 'What you did was wrong, but I respect the fact that you're coming out and owning up to it now,'" says his wife.

Brawner says none of his sexual partners has contacted him to tell him they're HIV-positive.

"The people that had the potential of being infected by me I've communicated with--with the exception of one person," he says. "And that one person--from what I'm told--is living happily in Atlanta with her family."


Brawner was already planning his youth center when he started working as a youth outreach coordinator at St. Christopher's Hospital last year.

He had plenty of contacts. His participation in events in the HIV/AIDS community had etched his name in the hearts and minds of many leaders: State Sen. Vincent Hughes, Rev. Dr. Alyn Waller of Enon Tabernacle Baptist Church, the AIDS Law Project's executive director Ronda Goldfein, and Siloam's co-founder Sister Bernadette Kinniry.

"Everybody goes through adolescence feeling different and isolated. To have [HIV] to deal with on top of it shows huge character to be where he is now," says Goldfein.

Brawner's story began getting play in the media. He was showcased on buses dressed in a white suit and white sunglasses for an international HIV/AIDS campaign, and he was featured in an MTV documentary for the 25th anniversary of the disease's first diagnosis.

He wrote a business plan for the center he wanted to open. He wanted a building that wouldn't stand out as an HIV facility--that would look anonymous--which is why he decided on the warehouse on East Allegheny Ave.

But grants he'd hoped for fell through, and he began to wonder if there'd be enough money to open the center. He and his wife were able to live comfortably in suburban Delaware County with the help of income from two rental properties, but he didn't have enough of his own money to open HAVEN.

"It was like, 'Which one of us is going to sell their soul first and go big corporate or jump to the pharmaceutical companies?'" says Carter, laughing. "But when you do what God wants, you're covered."

Finally, Brawner received a grant for $10,000 from a pharmaceutical company he prefers not to name.

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1. Jennell McHugh said... on Sep 11, 2008 at 07:11AM

“This exploration of observations reads well while subtly exposing us to complexities with which many infected individuals have dealt since the conception of the virus, although they are not alone. From misunderstanding to anger to denial to detachment to depression to awareness to acceptance to empowerment, these metamorphoses are universal but in the context of Brawner's life, crucial towards reestablishing our attention and priority to the goals of promoting education and healthy lifestyles, especially among young people. It is important to recognize the positive proaction of individuals rallying against the status quo of those more comfortable ignoring the problems that harbor Philadelphia and the world at large, especially in a way that does not slight the windy and troubled road in which those, like Brawner, traveled. This cover story is absolutely worth a cover; Bravo. ”

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2. Christopher said... on Sep 11, 2008 at 01:35PM

“I really liked the lede graf and the jump back to how Brawner got HIV positive - not obvious, effective.”

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3. ecortes said... on Sep 11, 2008 at 07:24PM

“This was such a great cover story. People are always asking, "Where is the good news out there!?" Well here it is. His story hopefully can inspire everyone out there whether HIV positive or not. This man struggled but at the same time knew he was doing wrong so he changed it. As long as you know what you want in life, no one can stop you; that's what I always believed in. It may take time and patience and he got it. ”

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4. Dekia said... on Sep 12, 2008 at 09:57AM

“Will & Bridgette! Im am so happy and proud of what you are doing! God has truly blessed you both. Im always touched by your story every time i read or hear it and I truly feel honored to know you! Keep on keeping on (as the church folks say!!)”

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5. Ricky S. said... on Sep 12, 2008 at 01:24PM

“It is an honor, and makes me feel proud, to know the both of you personally. I thank you for sharing your lives with the world.. you DO make a difference (even if they don't get up and applaud or offer ovations after speeches)... it's hard to applaud when you are facing a deafening reality in your own life.. when you are grasping what could be so very possible for yourself... when we are left to examine our own risky behaviors and judgement.. there isn't too much to clap about.. but it's VERY necessary and take the absense of the ovation as confirmation that you were heard loud and clear. Thank you for blessing my own life... thank you and thank God for using you in this mighty way and giving me a little glimpse into what my own life means.”

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6. Lady Lib said... on Sep 15, 2008 at 01:34PM

“I thought this was a well written piece. With the upcoming AIDS Walk Philly (Oct.19) and World AIDS Day (Dec. 1) not too far behind it--the PW should run a listing of where people can go to get free HIV Counseling and Testing in Philadelphia, New Jersey, and Delaware--by zip code.”

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7. Gail Ramsey said... on Sep 16, 2008 at 05:09PM

“Quote from the ariticle: "Something about his body kept his virus at bay, which is very unusual.” Wil and Bridgette: May God continue to keep you both in His amazing grace. Love, Gail”

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8. hahnah said... on Nov 12, 2008 at 02:03PM

“william, this is your sister Bambi. I never knew of your struggles and love you even more for sharing them!!!!!!”

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9. N. O. said... on Feb 2, 2009 at 08:26AM

“I went to Howard with Red and Langley. I was with them through the good and bad times. Will, as close as we were, I had no clue! I am proud of you for the man you have become and the inspiration you given others. Keep up the great work. N.O.”

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10. Sharday said... on Dec 7, 2011 at 09:52PM

“This guy goes out of his way to infect people with AIDS, and just because he's stopped it, he'd being lauded as a hero? He should be in jail!

Also, the whole story sounds fake. Burned in the bathtub so severely that he needed skin grafts? Did they have boiling water coming out of that faucet? And then no one bothered to test the temperature, and just dropped an infant into a tub of boiling water accidentally? Why did no one question such an outlandish story, and explain how that could happen, before just publishing it as "fact"?

So we've got a kid who ran around deliberately trying to infect people, and who now seems to still be extremely selfish and disrespectful of other people- he's mentioned as being late, i.e. leaving other people waiting on him (for 90 minutes in one instance!), and now we're giving him accolades for becoming an "activist." He was already an AIDS activist-he was actively spreading AIDS. He basically attempted to kill his sexual partners. Nice guy.”

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11. WTF said... on Dec 10, 2011 at 07:26PM

“I cannot believe people are applauding this dude. He deliberately had unprotected sex with the females at HU.I don't want to that bullshit he didn't know if he supposedly caught HIV the way he say he did the he had yo have been on medicine from that point on. I can see as a child u not knowing but as u become a teenager and a adult... how stupid do he thinl people are?? He wants to be a victim and a hero but he's an disgusting dirt bag.. I have no sympathy for him but my heart goes out to the females he could have exposed..”

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12. Shaheed said... on Mar 26, 2012 at 10:28AM

“Courage says...HE AIN'T THE ONLY ONE...HE MESSED UP BUT HE MADE A TURN.

I just lost a sibling to the disease and I bet he did his dirt too but here is what I know. Our society doesn't have open conversations on the issues of sex so we have to take a stand.

I wish more people that messed up would redeem themselves by trying to educate and save someone else.

It takes two too tango and if you have sex unprotected you own 50% whether you are positive or not. Women have to own up to making a Brother strap up in love or not.

A bad start doesn't negate a good finish.”

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14. Anonymous said... on Mar 2, 2015 at 04:00PM

“Just saw the documentary. Although i disagree with how he began his sexual lifestyle I sm happy he has come out and made such positive actions towards coping and curing hiv. We have all done things whether we know it or not yo out conceive in harms way. Whether it be drunk driving or not paying attention but there's lessons to be leather and life goes on. Hopefully this piece encourages all to do their part in the prevention and awareness of the disease”

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15. Sandria Walton said... on Mar 19, 2015 at 12:54AM

“I really admire and respect you for admitting/acknowledging your mistakes. Raising awareness for AIDS is very courageous and not everyone is brave enough to announce their status. Despite the negative backlash, the world needs to be aware of this disease and continually practice safe sex. I just finished watching your film and I'm happy to see a REAL reality movie that's not scripted.

Continue to fullfil your purpose!!! #Awareness4Aids”

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16. Anonymous said... on Mar 29, 2015 at 11:54PM

“Knew his girlfriend at hu and I am mortified he subjected innocent young girls to this. I'm mortified he and his mother only cared about keeping reds secret and didn't value the lives of others. You put other kids at jeopardy...sounds criminal to me. You gambled with lives. I hate I watched the doc b/c I am so disturbed.”

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