Some women struggle with hang-ups or body issues that make it difficult for them to relax and enjoy being on the receiving end of oral sex. But some women who don’t struggle with hang-ups or body issues simply don’t enjoy receiving oral sex. If your wife is generally comfortable in her own skin and with her own body, WSF, you may have to take her word for it when she says that oral sex does nothing for her. But if it truly does nothing for her—“nothing” would include “annoy” and “turn off”—maybe she can lie back and enjoy what it does for you.
I am a 22-year-old female who’s only ever achieved orgasm during fellatio, and my boyfriend will not perform fellatio on me! I have tried bringing it up during sex: He told me that he didn’t want to do that to me because a mutual female friend told him that I didn’t want him to do that to me. I did tell her that at the beginning of our relationship, but I don’t feel that way anymore! I’m way too embarrassed now to ask again, because it would feel like I was begging him for fellatio. Please help me!
Need to Get Mine
Try asking your boyfriend for cunnilingus, NTGM, not fellatio. If that doesn’t do the trick—if he doesn’t start eating your pussy—then DTMFA.
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