Savage Love

By Dan Savage
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It was an unexpected twist of fate—HD didn’t know that VG and KG were friends—that resulted in VG discovering something about HD that HD didn’t choose to reveal to VG. (A twist of fate and the rules HD agreed to when he played with KG: HD had consented to KG showing him off.) While it’s possible that HD wouldn’t have cared that VG knew his secret, it was likelier that HD, if he knew VG knew his bi-for-bondage secret, would’ve felt embarrassed around his coworker—not to mention compromised during any routine workplace conflicts with VG.

I urged VG to keep his mouth shut.

In your case, SFMMD, while it’s possible that your coworker doesn’t care who knows that she does fetish modeling on the side for extra money and/or thrills, it’s likelier that she would be embarrassed to learn that someone she knows professionally discovered what she’s doing. There are plenty of other women out there, and plenty of other legs and feet to photograph. Keep your mouth shut.

I was reading a letter in your archives from a woman who didn’t have much libido. I was disappointed that you didn’t mention that decreased libido is a common side effect of almost every form of hormonal birth control. The first thing a woman with low libido should do, if she’s been on the same pill for years, is to switch methods. I would love it if you’d mention this in your column.

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1. Anonymous said... on Nov 25, 2011 at 06:42PM

“WHY ARE THERE NO ARTICLES IN YOUR COLUMN ABOUT POLYGAMY LIKE WE NOW SEE ON TV. I KNOW THAT THIS TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP EXISTS IN PLACES OTHER THAN TV LAND. I PERSONALLY BELIEVE THAT THIS WILL BE ONE OF THE "" HOT"" ITEMS FOR THE 21ST CENTURY. I WOULD LIKE TO READ IN DEPTH ARTICLES FORM PEOPLE INVOLVED IN SUCH A RELATIONSHIP, NOT THE TV B.S.

TOM DIMAIO”

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