Never Shady, Only Fierce: Josh Schonewolf Can Do No Wrong

By Bill Chenevert
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A hearty party: (From left) Eli Cameron, Icon Ebony-Fierce and Josh Schonewolf. (Photo by Alexander John)

Josh Schonewolf and I met at Supper for happy hour to talk about a few things. I sent him a couple links that I’d read and been thinking about: a HuffPost story about gays being bullies to other gays and a New York Times feature about being 20-something and coming to the idea of work in new ways. Schonewolf’s embarking on a new chapter in his life, promoting and producing events, largely gay-themed, and it’s starting to take off in pretty thrilling ways. He’s already somewhat of a big name in the gay community via his blog, Josh Can’t Cook, which he started in 2010. He‘s been featured in the pages of Philadelphia Gay News and has dates’ roommates bug out when they find out they’re going for drinks with “Josh Can’t Cook.”

The blog started as stress relief from a soul-crushing finance job he maintained just to have a job. The Temple ‘05 grad studied communications with a TV/media performance focus, but found himself in an office full of women that he wanted to destroy. (Not with malice, of course; just, ya know, because the office environment can do that to a person.) Josh Can’t Cook boasts up to 5,000 page views a week, and it’s not going anywhere; he’s slated to start shooting 20 episodes next week. He’s only made 15 since the blog’s inception, but they’re no joke. Even at three minutes in length, he prepares about a dozen jokes for each and has a crew help him with production. They get made in his home’s kitchen in Newbold, and starting in April or May, he’ll start revealing his new “season” to the world.

Schonewolf loves a party, but he’s a pretty atypical nightlife personality. He told me he loves the phrase “Life’s a party; all you have to do is RSVP,” and I really believe he means it. He just likes to throw parties. He threw a Halloween hat party and had a blast with it. Then things got serious, and he made his first philanthropic event debut with a benefit, Josh’s Dinner Party, for New York’s Ali Forney Center on a Friday night last August. More than 300 people came, and 30 gifts were provided from various area businesses. I was curious about the logistics, so I dug: What does it cost if your event flops? Typically, at a place like Tabu Sports Bar & Lounge, if your crowd doesn’t make it to a bartab point ($500), you have to pay the difference. Schonewolf brought his checkbook, but he didn’t have to write one. It was a hit.

This winter, he hosted Josh’s Drag Ball, a fundraiser for Philadelphia’s Attic Youth Center that corralled 15 queens and even pulled one in from RuPaul’s Drag Race (Milan from Season Four). This brings us to one of the primary subjects of our snack chat: We are drowning in drag. Drag’s fun, and we love it. But Schonewolf is interested in bigger and better events that don’t use drag as the primary crowd bait. He and Brandon Robert of PhillyDragopolis are officially working together to produce some big events in the future. Think a locally based Top Chef or a Voyeur-based American Idol.

The idea of dwelling in the world of gay nightlife and event production is frightening to me. Gay people can be really mean to other gay people, and it’s sad. It’s something that our own Goddess Isis tries to refrain from with positivity in the phrase “Be a light.” Or as they say in Paris is Burning, “We’re not going to be shady, just fierce.” And Schonewolf is like a fierce Real Housewife. One night at Stir, he asked me for a housewife tagline—you know, the one-sentence self-descriptive introductions at the beginning of each episode. It’s generally a “I may look like this, but I’m actually that.” I improvised “I may be a writer, but I can read even better.” I was pleased with myself, mostly because Schonewolf screamed. “YES!” Well, when I read Josh, I see a light.

Josh runs a party every other Monday at Tavern called Hot Mesh and hosts a party called Ratchet on Wednesdays at Tabu Sports Bar & Lounge.

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1. Jen said... on Mar 20, 2013 at 01:55PM

“Yay go josh!”

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2. Billy said... on Mar 20, 2013 at 01:56PM

“LOVE josh. His parties are so fun”

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3. Josh D. said... on Mar 20, 2013 at 04:57PM

“Josh is a nice enough guy. But I don't understand what makes him an LGBT leader. He pours drinks and parties with drag queens. Look around. There are far more exciting people making things happen in this community. Not everyone wants to hang out in bars and get drunk. But that seems to be what everyone writes about anymore. It's sad.”

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4. Mike said... on Mar 21, 2013 at 07:56AM

“I'm Soooooo sick of drag shit”

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5. Brendan said... on Mar 21, 2013 at 01:22PM

“Josh's parties are so much fun.”

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6. Em said... on Mar 21, 2013 at 01:25PM

“Josh is the real deal...he's a super nice dude & his events are fun, even though I'm mad sick of drag shit. His Ratchet party is reeeeeally fun”

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7. A.M. said... on Mar 21, 2013 at 01:38PM

“In defense of josh, what makes him
An LGBT leader is that he has thrown numerous charity events, raising thousands of Dollars for LGBT charities. He did this by throwing a fun party, every time, and packed it each time. I've met josh a few times, after
Reading about him on gphilly. He's as nice
As he is cute. How many successful charity events have YOU thrown, Josh D?”

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8. frankie said... on Mar 25, 2013 at 07:10AM

“is josh "paying"(free booze, sexual favors) mr chenevert to post these articles?! what a joke, lemme copy and paste the same interview and give it a new blog title and a different section on PW”

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9. frankie said... on Mar 25, 2013 at 07:13AM

“oOoH looks like i hit a nerve.. censorship is alive and well..”

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10. Bill said... on Mar 25, 2013 at 02:35PM


No I contacted Josh to write this story about him. We're involved in the same social circles, but he hasn't given me any "favors" to write about him. I find that his story is genuine and unique, and I wanted to showcase it. He's been featured in other newspapers, magazines, and blogs as well....not just this one.

All my best


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